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This is a Tumblr devoted to pictures of Arpakassos with food. 

This is a Tumblr devoted to pictures of Arpakassos with food. 

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why is this a Facebook ‘recommended group’ of mine

why is this a Facebook ‘recommended group’ of mine

Anonymous:
You should learn to see the bright side of your daily life.

Pickles, cupcakes, animal prints, flower patterns, Pokemon! 

Anonymous:
LOL what is going on with your school and you. It sounds like the worst school ever.

It’s not so bad… the kids are pretty good and better behaved than all my friends’ students seem to be. The problem is my coworkers… after the first week no one made an effort to be friendly to me, and I would hear everyone saying in Korean that they hated English so I just stopped forcing them to talk to me. Even when I smile at people I’m walking by, they just look away and pretend they don’t see me. Essentially, I don’t exist here, which is a big change from my old school where I liked and was really close with all my co-teachers. Even the other teachers in the school were nice to me, even if they were old and spoke zero English. Also, my one CT in particular has yelled at me for insignificant reasons numerous times and ignores me when I try to talk to her and I don’t even ask her for help anymore since the one time I did she said “I don’t want to” and that was that. But the worst thing to me is how loud the office is because it affects my productivity. I just want to do my job at my job. Hardly anyone ever does work and I’ve never heard grown adults be so loud in my life. There’s never a moment of silence in the office. It’s like a never-ending shrieking gossip party here. And I know that people might not be friendly to me because I don’t join in on the constant snacking that happens every day, but I’m just not hungry for ramyeon at 8:30AM or pizza and chicken two hours after we’ve eaten lunch. I really struggle to get any work done. I’ve started getting to work at the last possible second because I don’t want to be stuck sitting at my desk, trying to do work, while someone screams to unni about Starbucks coffee at the top of her voice over my head for twenty minutes. I know it sounds mean, and it’s not like I really dislike anyone, I just dislike how loud and, in my eyes, unprofessional they act. I can be loud and talkative, too. Just not at work. So, to summarize, every day is like a big noisy party to which I am not invited. I wish my desk was in an office with one or two other people like most of my friends. Also I think my ideal place of work is a dark, empty cave.  

teachacrajy:

burndogturns:

partyintherok:

I swear, I am a really polite person, but old Korean women turn me into a monster. This morning an old woman got on my always very crowded bus at rush hour and stood right in front of the exit door with both arms out holding onto poles, blocking the whole exit. Obviously she was not so frail that…

I don’t lik this.  Sorry.

She’s an old lady.  You don’t need to push, touch, grab, hold, yank, jab, elbow, bite, hassle or heckle the elderly.

Leave her be.

I mean…think of all of the shit that old woman has been through in her lifetime (especially here…if she’s over 65 she no doubt had shit TOUGH) and just take a deep breath.  Use the other door…or let some other yahoo manhandle her. 

Anyways…I am not a man of high moral standards or demands…and I have no idea why…but this post annoyed me.  Whilst I am willing to agree that the elderly can be annoying…I am yet to think that I have the right to emulate them.  They’ve worked hard to become moderately aggressive and demanding…I respect that.

My beloved Burndog, she didn’t push this old woman down the stairs and step on her as she dismounted the bus, she merely moved her hand from the pole.  I would be willing to bet a testicle (even one of my own) that the old battleaxe has done worse on public transit just within the previous 48 hours.

How the heck else was she supposed to disembark?

On a rush hour bus crammed full of people, using the other door would be literally impossible. (Also you aren’t supposed to get off at the front of the buses, anyway.) Even getting off at the appropriate door when someone isn’t blocking the whole door is pretty tough. I usually end up getting pushed out the door by the force of the crowd behind me (half a bus worth of people in a hurry) and legitimately tumbling out of the bus wondering how I managed to escape, even though I always stand as close to the door as possible, which is why I was the first person getting out and the one who so audaciously touched the old lady’s hand. The survival instinct kicks in and it’s every man for himself.

The thing is, most older people here think that they are exempt from public transportation etiquette and, perhaps, many forms of general common decency. If you’re going to stand in the way of a door and then purposefully ignore people asking you to move when you have turned around to see them struggling to get around you, then you are basically asking for them to aid you in moving yourself. Especially when you’re in the way of people rushing to catch the other buses they must take to work (for example, mine, which comes every 20-30 minutes. If I miss it, I’m toast.) I mean, expecting an entire busload of people to just not get off because one rude person won’t move out of the way is ridiculous.

Elderly =! free pass to be inconsiderate and rude to other people. And all the verbs mentioned above, save for the biting, are things I’ve had elderly Korean people I don’t know do to me. (Just add in hair-pulling, spitting at, screaming at, stepping on, poking, and body-checking to the list.) So I don’t really think that touching someone gently seems like a big deal in comparison, sorry. 

Anonymous:
I'm not sure if you've been asked this before, but what do you do when an ex contacts you? My ex contacted me the other day after months of not speaking (hes Korean) and it was late at night when I was out with friends at a a bar. I looked at it, laughed and deleted the message. He basically said he wanted to "thank me for a good memory" wtf? ahaha

It depends on how the breakup was. For example, I broke up with my first Korean boyfriend here because he didn’t make time for me and hardly ever would meet me (sound familiar, ladies?) A few months later I agreed to meet him again because he said he would change his ways, but when it became clear that he wasn’t going to, I stopped talking to him. Then a few months later, because I am too forgiving and nice to deadbeat dudes, I agreed to meet him again, and the whole process repeated itself 3 times. The last time was really the last straw, though. If he messages me again I am going to be really, really mean to him. 

Korean players will keep you in their phone books and message you every few months like clockwork, even if they have a girlfriend, just to keep you in their “fish bowl.” That way, when they’re single or don’t have any plans on a Friday night and you’re their obvious last resort, it doesn’t seem weird for them to ask you out. Late at night messages are never a good sign. If it’s late at night he’s probably been drinking, and he wouldn’t have messaged you if he wasn’t. And if he really wanted to talk to you, he would have messaged you at a normal time. The signs don’t look good! Tell him you hope he has a good memory, because he will never see you again.^^

PS~ how unsurprising is this? A week ago I changed my Kakao Talk picture from a far away one to a selca in which I look pretty decent and since then FOUR Korean guys I haven’t talked to in over a year have messaged me asking if I “have time” to meet. NOPENOPENOPE. 

I swear, I am a really polite person, but old Korean women turn me into a monster. This morning an old woman got on my always very crowded bus at rush hour and stood right in front of the exit door with both arms out holding onto poles, blocking the whole exit. Obviously she was not so frail that she couldnt’ stand on her own seeing as she was clad in a hiking outfit complete with visor, backpack, and boots, obviously on her way to hike somewhere. Then, when the bus stopped at the busiest stop where almost everyone gets off, she just refused to move… I was standing right behind her and I said “excuse me” and a bunch of other people said it, too, and she turned around and looked at us and still didn’t move… so I just took her hand (shriveled old crone talon), physically removed it from the pole, and elbowed my way out of the bus. No regrets. I mean, I feel kind of bad since she was old, but you know she wouldn’t have thought twice about elbowing me and stepping on my toes if I was between her and an empty seat on the subway. When in Rome. Push, shove, and be rude to others as the elderly Romans do!

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The new Suji’s is great! I GOT FREE DILL PICKLES. All I’ve ever wanted in life…

The new Suji’s is great! I GOT FREE DILL PICKLES. All I’ve ever wanted in life…

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meetmeatthewall:

Meow!
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Ever since the weather had been warm enough to not require a coat, the crossing guard near my apartment comments on my clothes every day. Not sure if it’s because I dress like a rainbow or he’s saying something lewd… I’m 99% sure he said “Looks cool!” in English at me this morning, haha.

Ever since the weather had been warm enough to not require a coat, the crossing guard near my apartment comments on my clothes every day. Not sure if it’s because I dress like a rainbow or he’s saying something lewd… I’m 99% sure he said “Looks cool!” in English at me this morning, haha.

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I need this! I wanted this design in a small-sized tote bag but this is so much better (and less practical… oh, well!)

I need this! I wanted this design in a small-sized tote bag but this is so much better (and less practical… oh, well!)

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meetmeatthewall:

yoochunsa:

OMG

Party in the ROK I found you a thing

Thank you, I love it. 
FYI I saw a sheer mint green button down with a pattern of little white bunnies at Forever 21 and it was the last one and DIDN’T BUY it. I am really proud of myself. The reason I didn’t buy it was because the bunnies weren’t big enough. ^__^

meetmeatthewall:

yoochunsa:

OMG

Party in the ROK I found you a thing

Thank you, I love it. 

FYI I saw a sheer mint green button down with a pattern of little white bunnies at Forever 21 and it was the last one and DIDN’T BUY it. I am really proud of myself. The reason I didn’t buy it was because the bunnies weren’t big enough. ^__^

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